Ylang Ylang 3rd Essential Oil

Ylang Ylang 3rd Essential Oil soothes deep emotional disconnection and brings back a sense of quiet belonging.

Botanical name

Cananga odorata

Steam distillation of fresh flowers (3rd fraction)

Madagascar

Deep. Warm. Sweetly floral with a velvety body and a slightly earthy undertone.

Ylang Ylang 3rd is a gentle descent into presence—into a space where you feel safe beside yourself.

It soothes and wraps the heart without numbing—this is not oblivion, it’s return.

Pathological desires that distort the perception of reality.

The influence of damaged basic traits—such as the sense of connection, safety, and love—that lead to feeling separated or cut off.

Ylang Ylang 3rd highlights the inner story: the belief that one has no place in the world, no right to belong.

It asks softly: 'Is it really true that you are alone?'

This oil supports gentle self-containment and the internal experience of 'I am'.

It calms anxiety and releases the inner compulsion to prove, to be 'someone'.

Especially helpful for those whose identity has formed around loneliness or alienation.

It returns the subtle pulse of life to the inner world.

In Southeast Asia, Ylang Ylang is known as the flower of love and soul harmony.

Used in wedding ceremonies, reconciliation rituals, and symbolic acts of rebirth.

In Jewish tradition, the theme of return—teshuva—runs deep: returning to God, to self, and to the sense of belonging.

Ylang Ylang resonates with the sefirah of Malkhut, particularly in its power to heal isolation.

Blends beautifully with lavender, bergamot, sandalwood, patchouli, benzoin, jasmine, and neroli.

• Extracted in several fractions: the third being the warmest and most grounding.

• Valued in aromatherapy as the most embodied form of Ylang Ylang.

• Used in perfumery and spiritual practices for deep emotional support.

You are not forgotten.
You were never cut off—you simply turned inward.
I do not call you loudly—
I whisper to your heart:
you are allowed to return.